I want a man to be a gentleman forever, but on a first date, its a requirement, said Natalie. Its a condition. Otherwise, I just cancel everything. Sometimes thats not always easy, but I have to have self control, too. Ive been with some men who I really wanted to have sex with and would have been willing to almost anytime, anywhere, but I still kept my composure and did not let it happen too soon. I dont want to go to anyones house yet. And every time, waiting at least a little while made it better when we finally did have sex together. So I guess Im kind of a mystery. I love sex and I am very open about it, but I am selective and I wont jump into bed with just any guy who comes along, I dont care how handsome he is, or rich or anything else. I have to want him, respect him and get to know him at least some. Then, watch out!