Natalies dating philosophy is based on courtship

Natalies dating philosophy is based on courtship. The man always makes the first move. Not me. Its the mans role to do the pursuing. I like a man who is confident enough in himself to make that first move and not be afraid Ill turn him down. But, I have known a few men who were shy and were a little too gentlemanly and wouldnt try anything intimate or sexual with me. If I liked them enough I would be a little more aggressive and at least let them know that it was okay and that I wanted them to hold me or kiss me. After that they usually knew how I felt and they loosened up and took the lead from there. If they didnt, I gave up and usually didnt go out with them again.